Show Morea) Discuss Okonkwo’s relationship with Nwoye and Ezinma.
Okonkwo treated his son and daughter very differently. The child-father relationship between Okonkwo and Nwoye was a distant and strained one while Okonkwo exhibited another type of feeling towards Ezinma which is filled with care and concern. This was due to the fact that Nwoye “was already causing his father great anxiety for his incipient laziness” whereas Ezinma was thought to have the “right spirit” and “alone understood [Okonkwo’s] every mood”.
The relationship between Okonkwo and Nwoye is very stressful and bitter as Okonkwo has very high expectation for his eldest son. Hence Okonkwo always “sought to correct him by constant nagging and beating” when he was irritated…show more content…
He might be afraid that Okonkwo would “strangle” his son as he claimed before and betrayed him like he did to Ikemefuna. This made their relationship become more stressful.
Towards the end of the novel, Okonkwo and Nwoye’s relationship was broken and escalated to the point of no return. When Okonkwo knew Nwoye was among the Christians, he was “overcome with fury” and hit Nwoye “with two or three savage blows” with a “heavy stick”. The uses of word such as “savage blows”, “sprang” illustrate the intensity of his fury that even could kill him. At last, Nwoye “walked away and never returned”. It marked the end of their relationship and was further emphasised when Okonkwo reminded himself that “Nwoye was not worth fighting for” and he was not his son. He was totally disappointed with Nwoye’s believe and would not even like to be associated with him as he said “he did not wish to talk about Nwoye”. He also informed his five other sons not to follow Nwoye, otherwise “I will visit you and break your neck”, making a clear cut between their relationships. This also shows how Okonkwo was ashamed and resented Nwoye as a converter and disobeyed his order and expectation. In addition, when Obierika asks Nwoye about his father, he has replied “he is not my father”. Thus we can see their relationship is broken and
Compare Okonkwo's Character With That Of Nwoye (Things Falls Apart Chinua Achebe)
There has been some saying, such as: like father, like son, or a chip off the old block, which means a child usually looks and behaves like his father. However, Things fall apart written by Chinua Achebe has given us the opposite. The two people, Okwonkwo and his son, Nwoye, behave themselves as two very different characters. In this essay, I will further elaborate how different is Nwoye from his father in term of personality.
First of all, let us observe Nwoyes and Okwonkwos attitudes towards their life. Nwoye always seems so fearful, scared and terrified. We can see clearly from the book that Nwoye in the fear of his father. [Nwoye] feigns that he no longer cares for womens stories to please his father so he will not have to suffer from rebuking and beating. Although he is interested in Christianity, he dares not go too near the missionaries for fear of his father. In addition, when he is questioned by Okwonkwo about where he has been, he struggles to free himself from the chocking grip. We can see that Nwoye is frightened of confronting his father, as if he is a terrible and arrogant monster and it is what he really is to Nwoye.
Meanwhile, Okwonkwo is fearless. He is a great warrior, a man of war and he has killed five men, which shows that he is not afraid of blood and violence and indeed, he is keen on it. Moreover, Okwonkwos beating his wife in the Week of Peace, as he was not the man to stop beating somebody half-way through, not even for fear of a goddess shows that he is dauntless. He is also very brave when he says if the clan does not want to fight, he will leave them and plan his own revenge.
However, even though Nwoye seems to be fearful and Okwonkwo seems to be fearless, by observing their thoughts in mind, we can see that Nwoye is actually strong and valiant, while Okwonkwo is quite weak and uneasy. Nwoyes preference of womens story to Okwonkwos war experiences and the fact that he dares to leave the family to join Christianity show that Nwoye has his own opinion to live his life. He clearly expresses his feelings and has his own preference.
On the other hand, Okwonkwo is possessed by the fear of his fathers contemptible life and shameful death. He lives for fear of resemble his father. The actual reason for the fact that he killed Ikemefuna and that the only emotion he shows is anger is that he does not want to be considered as weak or feminine. There have been many cases when Okwonkwo feels uneasy because somebody mentions something related to his father. He is also very susceptible to unsuccessful men because they remind him of his late father.
Thirdly, we can see that Nwoye is extrovert as he can express himself, whereas Okwonkwo is quite introvert. Nwoye is easily to be...
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